If there’s one thing that we can’t prevent in our relationships, it’s change. Change is a word that some folks embrace and others don’t. The type of change needed in a relationship can greatly enhance or detract from the substance and quality of it. Chances are, that if you’ve found that you have the same problems at year 10 versus year 1, there’s been an unwillingness to accept change somewhere. Change becomes more difficult at later portions of life. This is because sometimes we get set in our ways. Its often more difficult to have a willingness to change after one has become “set in their ways.” Throughout our marriage, we’ve undergone various changes from our geographic residence, to new jobs, and onto inner things like ways of thinking, or even ways of spending.
Change combined with growth can be amazing. This is because growth has a way of causing us to change for the better and rewards that relationship in return with new realizations and vibrations. Faith can also play a big role in a marriage’s phases of change. When we get a better vantage point of how God sees us, and how we are expected or commanded to treat our spouse, it will help to create a compass, which calibrates our movements if we truly desire to please our spouse in a divine way. But we’d say look at it this way; you and your spouse are beautiful pieces of artwork being continually edited on the canvas of life. We are always being painted and refined, with new colors, refreshing accents, seasonal filters, and dark overlays. Until we can accept each other’s life process, we won’t be able to fully embrace what it means to embrace change.
“You Create the Marriage of Your Dreams”