Written by Salina Jivani
Every woman has her insecurities when it comes to the possibility of her man being wooed by someone better, younger, and sexier. And with the advent of the internet, the threats are no longer limited to just his office or the local bar. Facebook, Instagram, and many other social media platforms are notorious for being “hookup” hubs because they’re often where many people end up connecting nowadays…even when they’re off the market. So if you’ve got a man you’re in love with and you want to make sure women are keeping their claws off him, don’t look for the obvious signs—lookout for these three lesser known ones you probably had no idea about.
They’re still in love
If he’s still obviously in love with you, that doesn’t mean you’re safe. Many men who are married or engaged in a serious commitment are still in love with their partners when they cheat. So why do they do it? Because they’re just looking for some excitement and someone different to test the waters with.
They want you more
Contrary to belief, when men are having an affair, they’re more likely to become more frisky with you…not less. So if your man suddenly is seeking some extra action between the sheets, don’t fool yourself into thinking that means you’ve got him cemented within your clutches. It just as likely could be that he’s using you to fulfill his raging desires…
You’ll never work it out if he’s still at it
If it turns out he really is having an affair, no matter how much he promises he wants to make it work with you, don’t fool yourself into thinking that will be possible while he’s still seeing the other woman. If you truly want a good shot at repairing your relationship, you’ll have to make sure she’s completely and truly booted out of his life before you can restart yours.